LOTS OF SECRETS TO LONG MARRIAGE / GERARD SARNAT
Gottman says positive to negative bid ratio.
Greatest Of All Time QB Brady bleats, Next play.
Havrilesky advocates a very healthy dose of amnesia.

GERARD SARNAT / PORTOLA VALLEY, CA
Gerard Sarnat is an architecturally increasingly bent-out-of-shape marginalized 76 year-old with a history of disabling back pain, spinal stenosis, vertebral collapse and bilateral hip replacements. Patriarch and part of a very loving, connected extended family; having made every effort to transition decision-making to the next generation, nevertheless, he has mixed joy at the process working — and sadness at no longer being the center of it all.